Friday, May 17, 2013

What Is A Healthy Marriage?


Greetings everyone..... What is a healthy marriage?  If that question interests you, I strongly recommend that you view a youtube video where Sue Johnson eloquently defines what a healthy marriage is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dab34E4ON0 .  

Sue Johnson is developer of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. Her most recent book is one I highly recommend:  Hold Me Tight. Her approach is highly successful in helping couples create stronger, more secure relationships.

I have received advanced training(externship) with Sue Johnson and employ much of her theoretical insight in my work with couples.  I have also received advanced training with John Gottman, whose most recent book,  What Makes Love Last? , I also highly recommend.  

In addition to Johnson's approach, I employ the sound findings of Gottman's scientific research.   Both Johnson and Gottman emphasize the importance of attunement or emotional responsiveness in marital relationships. If you are interested to learn more about this, I urge you to view the youtube link:       http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dab34E4ON0 

On the above link, you will find more youtube videos by Johnson and others which also address the challenges and goals of healthy marriages, all of which are quite insightful and instructive.    

Enjoy!   Jim Covington